Finding yourself through your mate

I'm beginning to think I should become a relationship counselor. Seeing some of my friends date 3 or 4 friends of mine and counseling them through their experiences make me both excited for their encounters as well as happy that I am in love and not needing to deal with that sort of ridicule from the preferred sex. It is interesting to see how partners complete the other or just do not work together and guess on a relationships longevity. Some singles might say I'm just too bored because I am not dating. It is very definately not the case in my eyes. I have heard so many lies and run arounds from people I almost like to call men I am not interested in on it. Like if someone is to say, you have the most beautiful eyes, (even though it may be true), I am very prone to say to those I am not interested in but am more keen on poking them with a fork and seeing how they respond: how many girls do you say that to a day, or do you practice that on your dog? Some of my friends actually live to see me interact with those types just for the pure comical element. I mean, it is so interesting to see men try and if I care about their mental state, I'll try not to be too blunt but sometimes it is fun to play with their "game".

As I watch some of my friends try to find their significant other, I find it interesting to see peoples interactions. This is perhaps why I enjoy dating reality shows sometimes. Often times people do not seem to corelate compatibility with interesting backgrounds. Someone who may seem interesting and perfect on paper perhaps isn't the best sidekick per se. Some are not willing to recognize this. I often suggest to people that they look for themselves and then they will find the perfect orange half as they say in Spanish. I have spent so much time psychoanalyzing boys and girls on behalf of my adult Darwinistic dating friends it makes me happy that my own orange half understands me so well and me him. Fun is important but compatibility and tolerance is another.

There are so many interesting people out there deluding themselves that the person they are with could be the one, or if not, well... it's passing the time well. Perhaps I have just grown up some how faster than others I know but I somehow see others relationships in perspective. I sometimes see club as being depressing places because their are so many lost people looking for something that they don't know where to find it. I know just have fun watching mating rituals. I guess it depends on my mood. Either way it is anthropological study and furthering my independent career as a relationship counselor. So those who are reading: you need advice, you know where to come. Happy hunting campers!